So why do so many people hate networking?
Time. Shyness. As a consequence of the first two, many of us don’t think about networking until we need something. Walking into a room where you don’t know anyone, is uncomfortable. Reaching out to a neglected contact for a favor doesn’t feel right. Networks are about relationships, and relationships are reciprocal. The secret to making networking more effective and far more comfortable is to keep in touch with your network and gradually build on it – so you know a few people in the room and they are happy that you’re there.
What do you do if you haven’t stayed in touch with most of your network?
That is the beauty of this summer. We have all been neglectful for a long time. We had to be. It was the law! We have all spent too much time in too small a social circle. Acquaintances who haven’t heard from most people in a long time, will certainly be happy to hear from you.
Getting back in touch doesn’t mean overloading yourself with cocktails and coffee meetings; remember, some people are not ready to get back to face-to-face meetings. There are a lot of options.
Three easy ways to reconnect with your professional network
What kind of messages can you send?
A quick hello: “Hi. I was just going through my mailbox and came across your name …”
Catching up messages: Prepare an email to tell people what you have been doing and how you weathered the lockdown … and ask how they have been.
Share useful information: Forward an article that might be of interest. “I saw this article and thought you might find it interesting …”
Send a birthday message: or better yet, call or leave a voice message. (People like when you remember their birthday.)
Acknowledge a milestone or work anniversary: Did you see one pop up on LinkedIn. Instead of hitting ‘like’, send a quick private message or email – it’s more personal and that tiny bit of extra effort will be appreciated.
2. Dedicate a few minutes a day to making better use of social media. Yes. Just a few minutes.
3. If you are ready for some next level networking, here it is. Go through your professional contacts and divide them into categories that tell you how often to contact them, based on how close you are, how close you want to be and how important they could be for your career. This can seem a bit mercenary, but it helps you focus your limited time, and it keeps you from becoming a nuisance to people who likely only see you as a distant contact.
Core contacts: These are friends, close colleagues, mentors and potentially important business contacts – people you would like to be in closer contact with.
Interesting but more distant contacts: These can be people you have an established relationship with, who you just need to ‘ping’ from time to time to let them know you are thinking of them.
Acquaintances: These people might be colleagues from years gone by, people in different geographic areas – people you want to keep in touch with, but whose professional paths aren’t currently crossing yours.
Here’s one way to segment your network:
For more about the concept of segmenting your network, check out, Never Eat Alone, a fantastic networking book by Keith Ferrazzi.
This summer may be the best network building opportunity we have ever had. I can’t think of a time when people have ever been so universally craving contact.
I wish you a relaxing summer of reconnecting.
I am a Strategic Marketer & Scientific Writer and I work through my company, Savoir Dire Scientific Communication. I am proudly the Head of the Basel Communicators’ Network.
]]>In these uncertain times, charities need help – so do our careers
With economic shutdowns, dramatic changes in how we work and the continuing rise of the gig economy, many of us are wondering how secure our jobs are. In uncertain times, it’s natural to focus on maintaining your salary and position and easy to lose sight of your longer-term career goals. Maybe the help our communities all need now is our chance to do something really good for our careers and help our communities during a trying time.
At any stage of your career, you have something valuable to offer a charity
Regardless of age or career progression we can all offer: time, ideas, energy, money, or influence. Like any company, charities need people with all types of skills.
4 things charity work has to offer
How many jobs have you not applied for because you didn’t have the right experience? Many volunteer organizations are small; they need volunteers to step up and fill in whichever vacant roll and perform a wide variety of tasks. Your current professional skills will probably get you in the door. I.e. Do you speak more than one language? You will probably be asked to translate, but perhaps you would like to try your hand at communications. If you show you’re willing, you could learn skills and gain experience, faster than you would in your paid career.
2. Expand your network: Make connections across industries
You will meet new people with a range of backgrounds and professions, and from every career level. Networking as a volunteer means that everyone you meet gets to see you working for something you are passionate about – and they share that passion. Recommendations and references from volunteer work, can be among the best.
3. Explore a passion without the risk of a career change
Volunteering gives you a low-risk way to explore an interest or a career change. Discover you’re not as passionate about wildlife conservation as you thought you were, or did the find-raising projects you tried, just not feel right? Try another department or another charity. There’s a lot of good to be done.
4. You will feel fantastic
Offering help and working for a cause you care about, is uniquely satisfying and rewarding. Volunteering lets you feel a sense of connection to your community, that not many people ever experience. It’s a certain way to meet like-minded people and make friends.
How to find volunteer opportunities: It’s easier than you think
Here in Switzerland there are over 13,000 charitable organizations. America? 1.4 million. It’s not World Wildlife Fund or bust. Wherever you live, you will find a charity that matches your interests. Think about causes you could get passionate about and research charities working in those areas. Once you have narrowed your list, see if you have any connections in the charity or just call them up and ask to talk to the Volunteer Coordinator.
You have a lot to offer and a lot to gain.
Good luck and thank you.
Anissa Heyse
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